{"id":1814,"date":"2015-02-17T19:58:11","date_gmt":"2015-02-17T19:58:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/paulatooths.com\/index\/?p=1814"},"modified":"2018-04-26T20:46:26","modified_gmt":"2018-04-26T19:46:26","slug":"5-effective-ways-to-take-control-of-your-life-now","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/paulatooths.com\/index\/2015\/02\/17\/5-effective-ways-to-take-control-of-your-life-now\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Effective Ways To Take Control of Your Life NOW!!!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">(LONDON) por Paula Tooths<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Mastering Your Mind&#8230;&#8230; (and your life!!!)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><div class=\"kad-spacer clearfix\" style=\"height:10px\"><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">As a multitask person, I often felt overwhelmed with all that I needed to get done. I was constantly interrupted with phone calls, emails, and people dropping by my office.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><div class=\"kad-spacer clearfix\" style=\"height:10px\"><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Events move quickly in the world of news, and reporters demand immediate answers. I found that 5 minutes is enough time to prepare for a national radio interview and that TV news stations have deadlines in minutes, not hours.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><div class=\"kad-spacer clearfix\" style=\"height:10px\"><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I am not the only one who has experienced an epidemic of overwhelm at work. Distractions are everywhere, pulling at us and competing for our attention.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><div class=\"kad-spacer clearfix\" style=\"height:10px\"><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Researchers have found that the typical office worker only gets 11 minutes of work done between each interruption. More importantly, it takes an average of 25 minutes to return to the original task after an interruption, if they ever return at all.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><div class=\"kad-spacer clearfix\" style=\"height:10px\"><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">If you\u2019re someone who needs to get some thinking done before you can make good decisions and engage in meaningful conversations, then you need to explore these effective ways to master your mind and take back control of your life:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><div class=\"kad-spacer clearfix\" style=\"height:10px\"><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">1. MINIMIZE YOUR TO-DO LIST<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><div class=\"kad-spacer clearfix\" style=\"height:10px\"><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Take control of your life by training your mind to forget about multi-tasking.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Many of us are proud of our ability to multi-task. Multi-tasking may help us check off more things on our to-do list, but it\u2019s also likely to lead us to make more mistakes, miss important details, and fail to retain bits of information that are needed for creative problem solving.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><div class=\"kad-spacer clearfix\" style=\"height:10px\"><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">2. TRAIN YOUR BRAIN TO FOCUS<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><div class=\"kad-spacer clearfix\" style=\"height:10px\"><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Take control of your life by training your mind to focus.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Neuro-imaging shows us how the easily the brain is distracted. We need to learn how to ignore distractions, not engage them, if we want to be more focused, creative, and productive. The good news is that you can master your mind so you can be in the one in charge.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><div class=\"kad-spacer clearfix\" style=\"height:10px\"><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">3. NOTICE THE EMOTIONS YOU ARE FEELING<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><div class=\"kad-spacer clearfix\" style=\"height:10px\"><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Take control of your life by training your mind to pay attention to the emotions you are feeling.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">When you are feeling stressed because of distractions that are competing for your attention, be on the lookout for negative emotions as they rear their ugly head. What were the cues that caused a particular emotion to rise to the surface. Was it something you saw? Or heard? Was it something a co-worker did or said?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Train your brain to recognize this cue by being curious about what prompts a negative emotion. Wasting your precious time on emotions that are not productive is not efficient.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Prevent your mind from hijacking your life by doing the following:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">* Become AWARE of your options\u2014you can stop what you\u2019re doing and let the distractions and negativity take over, or you can let go of them.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">* CONSIDER your options\u2014consciously move between your thinking cerebral brain and your emotional, limbic system brain.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">* CHOOSE with intention\u2014take back control of your life and choose whether to allow the distraction to pull away your attention, or to disregard it.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><div class=\"kad-spacer clearfix\" style=\"height:10px\"><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a04. PUT A CHOKE HOLD ON NEGATIVE EMOTIONS<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><div class=\"kad-spacer clearfix\" style=\"height:10px\"><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Take control of your life by training your mind to stopping the emotions that leave you feeling anxious, stressed, or angry.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Emotions are processed in the limbic brain system, and negative ones are regarded as an early warning detection system to threats in our environment. In the caveman days, this was important for our survival. But not everything in our world today is a threat to our safety.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Put a choke hold on negative emotions by balancing every one negative thought with five positive thoughts. Remember, negativity sticks like velcro; positivity slides away like teflon.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><div class=\"kad-spacer clearfix\" style=\"height:10px\"><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">5. TRY MEDITATION TO ORGANIZE YOUR MIND<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><div class=\"kad-spacer clearfix\" style=\"height:10px\"><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Take control of your life by training your mind to separate what is important in life from meaningless mental chatter.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Mental toughness is being aware of the changes that occur when we begin to train our mind to take control of our life. A strong mind is one of the most empowering tools we can employ to impact and improve all areas of our life.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">When you meditate, it is easier to separate the noise from the static so you can focus on what really matters to you\u2014making decisions and engaging in conversations that have value and meaning.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Meditation strengthens our resolve to make intentional decisions, which in turn helps us organize our time better and more efficiently. This is important because our mind\u2019s natural inclination is to wander; this is exacerbated when we\u2019re distracted so it has an even harder time to decide what to focus.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Remember, the goal of meditation is not to have no thoughts at all; the goal is to allow your thoughts to flow but not get bogged down with a single issue or distraction.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Learn to master your mind so you can take control of your life and not be overwhelmed by distractions.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(LONDON) por Paula Tooths Mastering Your Mind&#8230;&#8230; (and your life!!!) As a multitask person, I often felt overwhelmed with all that I needed to get done. I was constantly interrupted with phone calls, emails, and people dropping by my office. Events move quickly in the world of news, and reporters demand immediate answers. I found that 5 minutes is enough time to prepare for a national radio interview and that TV news stations have deadlines in minutes, not hours. 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